One of the most common reason that women and couples seek sexual counseling is the women’s low sexual desire.
Surprisingly enough, many times the problem is the birth control pill. If you are on the pill, and are suffering from low sexual desire, try to switch to a birth control method, that does not involve hormones. You may want to consult your OB/GYN practitioner, or go to Planned Parenthood. Often the counselor at Planned Parenthood will dedicate more time to hear your concerns, and may suggest a wider selection of options to choose from. Be aware that it may take several months for your body to recover.
Clearly the pill does not always affect women in this way, or you may not be using the pill. There are many other reasons for the low sexual desire.